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Wedding Help Time Line

Jacqueline Grobler

Congrats — you’re engaged!  “So, now what?” you might ask. Starting to envision your wedding? Wondering about all the things you'll need to do and when? Our month-by-month snapshot of all your wedding to-dos will steer you in the right direction.

12 Months to go

  • Envision your wedding and draw up a budget.
  • Assemble your "planning team."
  • Pick a wedding date and time. Select several options, then check with your venues, officiant and important guests before finalizing.
  • Start planning the guest list.
  • Look for and book ceremony sites and reception sites.
  • Ask friends and relatives to be in the wedding party.
  • Optional: Have an engagement party. You may want to register beforehand for gifts.

8 - 10 Months to go

  • Bride: Think about, shop for and order your gown.
  • Book your Fitting with Ek trou Bridal 
  • Envision reception food.
  • Decide what type of entertainment you want. A pianist for the cocktail hour, strolling violinists, a DJ or band?
  • Think about your floral décor.
  • Research and book your wedding professionals. Interview vendors: photographer, videographer, reception band or DJ, and florist.
  • Register for gifts.
  • Contact rental companies if you need to rent anything for the ceremony or reception, such as chairs, tables and a tent.

6 - 8 Months to go

4 - 6 Months to go

  • Attend prewedding counseling, if required.
  • Shop for and order invitations and wedding rings.
  • Shop for formalwear.
  • Renew or get passports, if necessary.
  • Envision your wedding cake and research, interview and book a cake designer.

3 Months to go

  • Order wedding cake.
  • Attend your shower. (It may be earlier, depending on when your hosts decide to have it.)
  • Groom: Rent the men's formalwear.
  • Hire wedding day transport: limousines, other cars. Look into transportation sooner if you're considering renting streetcars or over-the-top travel.

2 Months to go

1 Month to go

  • Apply for a marriage license. Check with the local bureau in the town where you'll wed.
  • Bride: Have final gown fitting. Bring your maid of honor along to learn how to bustle your dress. Have the dress pressed and bring it home.
  • Call all bridesmaids. Make sure they have their gowns ready for the wedding.
  • Make last-minute adjustments with vendors.
  • Create a wedding program to hand out to guests.
  • Order and plan in-room welcome baskets for out-of-town guests

2 Weeks to go

  • Review final RSVP list and call any guests who have not yet sent a response.
  • Deliver must-have shot lists to your photographer and videographer. Include who should be in formal portraits and determine when portraits will be taken.
  • Deliver final song list to your DJ or bandleader. Include special song requests and songs you don't want played.
  • Bride: Get your last prewedding haircut and color.

1 Week to go

  • Give reception site/caterer final guest head count. Include vendors, such as the photographer or band members, who will expect a meal. Ask how many extra plates the caterer will prepare.
  • Supply location manager with a list of vendor requests such as a table for DJ or setup space needed for a florist.
  • Plan reception seating chart. 
  • Print place and table cards, or finalize list with the calligrapher you've hired.
  • Call all wedding vendors and confirm arrangements.
  • Give ceremony and reception site managers a schedule of vendor delivery and setup times, plus contact numbers.
  • Groom: Get your hair trimmed.
  • Attend bachelor/ette parties.

2 - 3 Days before Wedding

  • Bride: If you need to, have your gown pressed or steamed.
  • Groom: Go for final fitting and pick up your formalwear. 
  • Groom: Ask the best man to make sure all groomsmen attend fittings and pick up their outfits.
  • Determine wedding party positions during the ceremony and the order of the party in the processional and recessional.
  • Hand off place cards, table cards, menus, disposable cameras, favors and any other items for setting the tables to the caterer and/or reception site manager.
  • Reconfirm final details with all vendors. Discuss any necessary last-minute substitutions.
  • Call the limousine or car rental company for pickup times and locations.
  • Arrange for guests without cars to be picked up from the airport or train station. Ask friends, attendants or relatives to help.
  • Deliver welcome baskets to the hotel concierge; include names and delivery instructions.

The day before the wedding

  • Provide all wedding professionals with an emergency phone number to call on the day of the wedding.
  • Write checks and/or talk to wedding hosts (usually your parents, if not you) about any final balances to be paid at the end of the reception.

Bring unity candle, aisle runner, yarmulkes or other ceremony accessories to the site. 

  • Give your marriage license to your officiant.
  • de names and delivery instructions.

THE BIG DAY

  • Present parents and each other with gifts.
  • Give wedding bands to the best man and maid of honor to hold during the ceremony.
  • Give best man the officiant's fee envelope, to be handed off after the ceremony.
  • Introduce your reception site manager to your consultant or maid of honor for questions or problems during the reception.
  • Assign a family member or attendant to be the photographer's contact so he/she knows who's who.
  • Remember something sexy for the wedding night

Post wedding

  • Prearrange for someone to return any rentals.
  • Preplan for attendants to take the bride's gown for cleaning and return the groom's tux to the rental shop.
  • Write and send thank-you notes to gift-bearing guests and vendors who were especially helpful.

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